Therapy for Religious and Spiritual Trauma in New York

You Don’t Have to Carry the Weight of Spiritual Wounds Alone

Religious or spiritual trauma can leave deep scars that are often invisible to the outside world. Maybe it’s the shame and fear instilled in you from a rigid belief system. The guilt that never seems to leave. The painful memories of manipulation, control, or rejection by a religious community. Or the silence that followed when you began questioning your faith and lost the place you once called home.

If this feels familiar, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken. You’re human. And healing is possible.

At Heart Mind Soul Practice, we understand the unique pain that comes from religious or spiritual trauma. Our New York therapists are here to support you with compassion, helping you untangle painful beliefs, rebuild your sense of self, and discover peace, connection, and meaning on your own terms.

This is your space for healing. Your journey toward wholeness can begin today.

What Is Religious and Spiritual Trauma?

When Faith Hurts Instead of Heals

Religious and spiritual trauma occurs when faith-based experiences cause emotional, psychological, or even physical harm. It often stems from environments where fear, control, or shame were used in place of love, compassion, and acceptance.

This kind of trauma is particularly painful because it often involves your core beliefs about yourself, your purpose, and your relationship with others or the divine. It can leave you questioning your worth, identity, or even reality itself.

Religious trauma can look like:

  • Growing up in a high-control or authoritarian religious group

  • Experiencing fear-based teachings about sin, punishment, or eternal damnation

  • Being shamed or excluded for your identity, sexuality, or beliefs

  • Spiritual abuse from leaders or communities you trusted

  • Losing your faith and experiencing rejection or isolation

Unlike other forms of trauma, religious trauma deeply intertwines with identity and meaning. Healing doesn’t mean erasing your past—it means reclaiming your voice, dignity, and ability to choose what spirituality, if any, looks like for you.

Types of Trauma We Support

At Heart Mind Soul Practice, we know that trauma shows up in many different forms—and no two experiences are the same. Our therapists specialize in supporting people who have lived through:

  • Harmful practices, manipulation, or coercion within a faith-based community.

  • Being shamed or excluded because of sexual orientation, gender identity, or personal beliefs.

  • The grief, confusion, or fear that can come with questioning or leaving a religious tradition.

  • Struggles rooted in family or cultural expectations tied to faith.

  • Ongoing anxiety, shame, or dread tied to religious teachings.

  • Overlapping experiences like childhood abuse, abandonment, or psychological control within spiritual systems.


Who We Serve

  • Adults

    Supporting you in regaining control, purpose, and inner peace.

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  • Couples

    Helping partners navigate emotional disconnection and depression together.

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  • Families

    Creating safe spaces for family understanding and emotional support.

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  • Groups

    Empowering group sessions for shared healing and growth.

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Do You Need Support for Religious or Spiritual Trauma?

Signs You May Be Living with Religious or Spiritual Trauma

Religious or spiritual trauma often lingers long after the experiences themselves are over. You may find yourself questioning your worth, replaying painful memories, or struggling to reconcile the beliefs you were taught with the person you are today.

Sometimes, the impact isn’t obvious—it shows up in subtle ways, like feeling disconnected from your body, struggling with relationships, or constantly second-guessing your choices.

Signs that therapy may be helpful:

  • You feel guilt, shame, or fear tied to past religious experiences

  • You struggle with trust, boundaries, or self-worth

  • You feel disconnected from yourself, your values, or spirituality

  • You experience anxiety, depression, or intrusive thoughts about faith

  • You were shunned, rejected, or cut off from a faith community

  • You’re navigating the loss or deconstruction of your faith


Healing doesn’t mean forgetting your past. It means finding freedom, peace, and the ability to define your beliefs and values in a way that supports your well-being.

A Gentle, Evidence-Based Path Toward Healing

  • EMDR Therapy

    Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing is a form of therapy that helps with processing trauma

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  • Somatic Experiencing

    A body-focused therapy that helps release stored trauma and restore nervous system balance

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  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

    A gentle approach that helps you connect with inner parts of yourself that may be carrying pain

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  • Mindfulness-Based Therapy

    Helps you cultivate awareness of your thoughts, stay grounded, & emotionally regulated

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Healing Both Spiritual and Emotional Scars

When you’ve experienced religious or spiritual trauma, the impact often goes beyond faith—it can affect your mental health, relationships, and even your sense of self.

Many people who carry these wounds also struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or even symptoms of depression. That’s why our work often overlaps with therapy for depression, helping you not only release painful spiritual experiences but also address the heaviness, sadness, and disconnection they may have left behind.

At Heart Mind Soul Practice, we understand how deeply spiritual trauma can impact your heart, mind, and soul. That’s why our approach is rooted in:

  • Trauma-Informed Care – Respectful, safe, and paced at your comfort level.

  • Identity-Affirming Therapy – Honoring who you are, without judgment or expectation.

  • Compassionate Exploration – Space to unpack beliefs, emotions, and memories.

  • Empowerment and Reconnection – Supporting you as you reclaim your voice, boundaries, and self-trust.

We don’t push answers or beliefs—we walk alongside you as you explore what feels authentic and healing for your life.

How Do I Get Started?



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A Safe Space to Heal and Reconnect with Yourself

We listen deeply, hold space without judgment, and walk beside you as you begin to heal from wounds that may have felt too heavy to carry alone.

💙 Your healing journey begins with one small step: reaching out.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Religious trauma happens when harmful religious or spiritual experiences cause lasting emotional, psychological, or physical pain. It may come from fear-based teachings, abuse, or rejection within a faith community.


  • Therapy is not about changing your beliefs—it’s about helping you heal from harmful experiences while supporting you in defining faith and spirituality in a way that feels safe and authentic.

  • That’s completely okay. Healing is about your emotional and mental well-being, not about whether or not you hold religious beliefs. Therapy supports you in reclaiming peace and identity, regardless of faith.


  • Many people feel grief, guilt, or fear when stepping away from a faith tradition. Therapy can help you process these emotions and build trust in your own values and choices.


  • If you’re experiencing ongoing distress—whether it’s guilt, fear, anxiety, or disconnection from your sense of self—therapy may offer the support and tools you need to heal.